If yes, in what ways do you communicate differently? Some ways I communicate differently sometimes I have to slow down when I am speaking to make sure they understand what I am saying. I have to watch the language I am using like using slang words. My English needs to be clear that they understand me, and also try not to let stereotypes and things that I may have heard about the families or children influence my communication.
Three strategies you could use to help you communicate more effectively with the people or groups you have identified.
- Be patient when communicating with other groups.
- Be respectful
- Listen before you speak and watch hand gestures, facial and body language.
Denice,
ReplyDeleteI have a hard time with accents and really need to listen to what is being said as well. It is important to watch the language as it easy to use slang words that have no meaning for the other person. Good strategies.
Tamara
Denice,
ReplyDeleteLiving in Texas puts me in proximity to many Spanish speaking families. I have taken Spanish to learn to communicate better with the children and their parents. Learning a new language, as an adult, is difficult. When I speak Spanish to them, I can tell they are listening and smile. I think sometimes I'm saying something wrong but they appreciate the attempt at communicating with them in their language. They use the Platinum Rule with me and me with them in this case.
Thanks Denice for mentioning being patient. So often we are too busy trying to hurry the speaker along, until we both become frustrated and this overtakes the conversation through our nonverbal cues. I have a brother that will often finish your sentences and not let you get much in. He has to often be told to be patient and let others speak.
ReplyDeleteDenice,
ReplyDeleteI agree that sometimes accents get in the way of us understanding each other. I have a slight "country" accent that many don't notice until I am upset or really excited. It is ironic because many people cannot tell where I'm from until I say something that sounds very country or slang like in the Madea movies! I tend to slow down a lot when I am talking to someone whose first language is not English and then I start to feel like I making them feel stupid by talking to slow.
I agree with you about being patient with communication. It is very easy to get frustrated and want to end the conversation. It did not dawn on me to watch my hand movements as well. I am Italian therefore; I talk with my hand ALOT. I guess I need to be more aware of that!
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